Growing Up

Have you ever wondered where you lost sight of things that were important to you?

This is my birthday weekend and I am not feeling very grown up or much like partying for that matter. I guess with age doesn't come wisdom.

I realized that I have been spending way too much time focusing on the world of chat and it has taken me on a roller coaster ride of emotions. I have been really selfish and thinking mostly of myself in the name of fun.

I guess that happens sometimes but finding balance in life, and in chat for that matter, is the key. If I had all the answers, I would write a book and share them with anyone who would shell out $21.30 but for now, I will just try to keep it wrapped in a very a nice package.

Who doesn't like a big bow on top! Remember: It is the little things that matter most...

Stay safe and have a great weekend!

Finding the Balance

The chat environment gives the user a lot of control, something that is difficult to have in the real world. I can decide how much of myself I want to share with someone and if a conversation gets too intense, I can just leave. I could never do that in the real world without making myself feel bad or uncomfortable. I guess, at times, I forget that there is a real person on the other side of the keyboard. How much of this is real and how much is just playing games? How much of a real relationship can you have in a not so real place? I am just left with questions but I am still searching for the balance in the world of chat.