Can you hear me now?

Sometimes people will hound you for personal information in a chat room. There are somethings I do not mind telling people. I will do the whole A/S/L thingy. I will even tell them my first name is Christie. I do not mind people using my real name in a chat room because "HELLO" it is my name. I just find that Cherry is easier to spell and there is nothing more annoying than someone who misspells your name over and over again.

If you still have problems with someone asking for information like your phone number here is an easy solution. Give it to them~ most people know I live nearWashington, D.C. so give them my 202-452-7468 number. This of course is a number to the rejection hot-line and if you have never heard of it then you should google search it. It is pretty hilarious. They have numbers for just about anywhere in the USA. The number goes to a recorded message telling the person that they have been rejected. I guess if you are curious enough you can give it a try. Oh, yeah 410-347-1488 is my real number so why don't ya give me a call!

Naked Friday!

One of the great things about chat is finding a room and becoming a regular. A place where you can stop by just about anytime and at least two or three people know your name.

I have not been able to find that yet in the chat rooms. I have been searching for a regular room but it seems no one stays in one place, or if they do they are not accepting new chatters. I am not giving up, so I will keep you posted if I find one.

I guess it has been a few years since I have had a regular chat room. I had a great fun there. We thought we were bad-asses and ruled the room. Back in those days, you could get into yahoo using back-doors and we only told the other regulars how to do that. You could enter a room even if it was full. You could also bring more than one of your own ids in at a time.

I am not sure how it caught on but we would all bring in a "naked" ids every Friday so for example I would be "Nekkid Cherrycolagal_4u2" or whatever ID sounded good at the time. The room would have 10-20 naked people in it and we would all be running around like it wall a full out orgy or something, with sexual innuendos slamming hard against each other. What fun those days were. I catch myself telling wishing people a "Happy Naked Friday" and then remembering they have no clue what that is, oh well...maybe I will just have to start that tradition in a new room...

The Wind

I am sure you can tell by now that I really like anime pictures. I saw this one and really liked it. The winds are howling outside right now and this picture really summed up my mood today. I thought I might just post it with little comment. Enjoy!

Hey HI

When I first starting coming to chat rooms, I was too afraid to even type hello. I sat back and watch everyone type. It took awhile to get up enough nerve to actually type, "HELLO" and then silence. It was like I had not even typed a word. I noticed that the regulars where hee hawing and having a grand ol' time but they did not include any newbies. I finally got tired of just watching so I started typing for the sake of typing. I ignored their rudeness and typed liked they were talking to me. I guess I seemed a little psycho but hey...it worked. I would say hi to another newbies and soon we would be having a conversation that in some cases, overshawdowed the regulars.

I really get tired of the hate online and maybe that is why I try to always be nice. I make a rule never to ignore someone unless they are totally out of line, which doesn't happend as much as you would think. You might notice that I try to say hey hi to everyone that chats and on a slow day to everyone that comes into the room (that can get annoying fast). I just do not want anyone to feel like I did when I first started to get my chat on...

Dancing with the tongue

I think getting to know someone is like a choreographed dance. You take turns asking questions until the words themselves turn into a rhythm. I love this part. I do not mind answering questions. I just like to know I have a partner in this and that I am not the only one doing all the answering. So please, do not make me a soloist. Tag you are it!!

The Best First Line

When chatting, you really only have one chance to get someone's attention. That first line is so important.

Do not waste your time with the whole a/s/l thangy! If they want you to know, it will be posted in their profile. If not, ease the questions into the conversation.

I am looking for a stimulating conversation but you have to have the words to back it up. I know that may be hard errrrr difficult for some but I am really looking for some conversational chemistry.

Leave me some sweet comments and let me know what a good first line would be....extra credit will be given for creativity!