Sunday, January 27, 2013

Drama-Draining













I have had people in my life who I love dearly but they take away most of my time and energy dealing with their crap or I guess a nicer way to put it is...with their "drama".

 It is always something with these individuals, there is always a crisis to be solved, a situation to correct, or a fire to put out!

You spend so much time trying to wrap up their lives into a neat bow that you soon realize it is yours that is in need of some serious attention to detail.  I don't think dropping them like a lead weight it the right way to go.  I think in this situation you have to put some of the blame on you side of the equation.  I mean, you let them borrow and carry from you until you were left with nothing.

The trick here is communication.  It is time to sit down and have a serious conversation with your drama-drainer.  Let them know you are there for them but you can't continue in this way.  Lay down the rules and stick to them.  If your can't follow your guidelines, then you have no choice than to drop them off like college laundry to your mom's house.  Good luck draining the drama from your life!

Bad Habits

Bad habits can be very comforting, like a warm cup-of-soup on a blistering, cold night.

 Lounging in a bad habit might feel comfortable at first, but as good as you feel at the time, you know sooner or later you will feel the tinge of guilt and the gnawing realization that it truly is bad.

 To leave this kind of comfort behind,you have to be determined and strong enough to just walk away and avoid further temptations that might seduce you back to your bad habit.  I am not by any means saying this is easy to do.  There are no short cuts here.  The only way out is to walk away and do not ever look back...

Saturday, January 26, 2013

Leaving Things Behind

Sometimes in life you have to leave things behind such as bad habits, pent-up feelings, drama-draining friends or quite literally, excess baggage. 

How do you figure out what to keep and what to leave behind?   I guess that has to do with what you are trying to accomplish in your world. 

I was going to write about how I think you should go about leaving things that you don't want in your life behind but I just realized that would be a very long post.  I think I will break it down into four more posts: Bad Habits, Pent-up Feelings, Drama-Draining Friends, and Excess Baggage.  My intentions are to start on those right away and make them my next posts but I also know myself well enough to know that is a tall order to fill...so wish me luck~



Friday, January 25, 2013

Seek Pleasure

I took some time today to read over my past posts.   I had a lot of fun reliving some of my chatting moments.  I have really changed a lot over the years.

When I first starting chatting, I wanted everyone to know and lick...errr LIKE me.  I posted bunch of pictures of myself and some even a little too revealing.  I am sure my bikini pics are roaming around somewhere on the internet.

 I would always share personal information and I took what people said to heart.  I learned that not everyone has good intentions and some people just love to hate.  It is the thing that makes them feel big and strong.

I always wonder what people haters are like in real life.  Are they really that mean to people?  I like to think they have it bad where they are and they are able to get through their day by being a jerk online.  I guess I just have to learn that I can't please everyone and bullies don't think about what they say to others and why should I spend any time thinking about what they say to me.  (Easier said then done!)

I don't spend much time chatting anymore.  I guess I found a place in the real world that makes me happy.  I do like to check in with online friends from time to time.  I guess as you age you get wiser.  I always want to be me.  I love life and the people I meet.  I guess I will always seek pleasure but what good is life if you don't have fun along the way!

Bottoms up!  Remember, creative minds use duct tape and whipped cream~ smirkles~

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Insignificant Packages

Have you ever thought about why you are here?  I mean literally, how did you get to this page?

You are reading my words and for a moment you are here with me.  I am not judging you or trying to change who you are but I am sharing time with you, in this moment we are one.

I wonder about what you are thinking as you read these words.  I wish our space was the same for a bit so that I could feel your breath and gaze upon your gestures.

Instead, I must image all that is you.  I hope your day was good and you smiled at least once, if not a zillion times.  I love to look at a smiling face...

I hope you took the time today to notice something small and insignificant.  I found the greatest rewards sometimes are those that come in small, insignificant packages...

Thank you for your time, enjoy yourself and know for a moment there was someone here that thinks you are the best, even if it is just for a moment of time that we spent together today....

Wednesday, January 16, 2013

Hold me Down

You caress my body gently with your strength and hold me down until I can't breathe.  I must will myself to over come you.  You will always be stronger than I am, your muscles make you my powerful enemy. You push me, slap me and make me the color of the horizon after the sun has slipped safely away.  I am yours to command and puppet.  You hold my strings and make to perform on command.  You needs are always met and mine are just taken by force.  You are the storm in my world and terror in my dreams.  I can never escape your grasp.  Hopeless and wounded I wait for you to caress my body gently with your strength and hold me down until I can't breathe... 

Height of Passion

I see you.  The person you try to be for me and the person you are to everyone else.  Why are there so many paths to the road you are traveling? 

I see you.  The person you put down on paper and the person you fill the world with.  Why are there so many casualties in your battle of the heart? 

I see you.  The person you play on the stage and the person you hold in the darkness of the day.  Why are there so many words in the pages of your life story?

 I see you.  The person you scream in the height of passion and the person you strangle in the mist of the rain.  Why are there so many questions about you?  I see you.  I see you in my reflection.  I see you as you see me.  I see you.




Sunday, January 13, 2013

Prepare Yourself

Don't let them drag you down...  You don't need a gun to take back what is yours.  It is time to fight for what you want...dig deep inside yourself to rise up to the challenge.  Prepare yourself to step out of your comfort zone and into a colorless world but this is your chance to escape.  This is your life and I hope you understand that you have one and only one voice and you need to shout and be heard.  Don't let them drag you down because you are afraid of changing...I am here for you, reach out...and open up you heart and mind to me...

Saturday, January 12, 2013

Body Thrusting


Put on the ear buds and be absorbed in the music.  Let it take over control of your senses.  Feel the pulsing throughout your pores and vibrations stimulating every inch of your body.  Rock your hips slowly while you thrust your body to the beat. Sway your wrists and ankles to the pumping rhythm that enraptures your hidden urges. Release yourself to the motion of the melody as you encompass the full embodiment of the song, dancing with delight as you take yourself over the edge.

Friday, January 11, 2013

Foggy Moon Bath

Have you ever felt a little unclear of things around you?  It is almost like rolling in a fog bank where you can see somethings close to you very clearly but things far away seem pretty blurred and hard to make out.

Because the things that are close to you are so visible and easy to navigate, you feel pretty safe and secure and maybe even you take it for granted that you will always be able to see things this way.

Looking out beyond makes you unsure because you can't see what is up ahead and you hold back a little and maybe stay somewhere too long just to hold on to those feelings of safety and security.

I encourage you to take a step of faith into fog, trust yourself and you will find a way to move forward.  You may stumble but you will gain a new understanding of your surroundings.  Hey, don't forget to look back and smile~ you have come a long way baby!